Is it REALLY Okay to Seek Medical Advice from Other Parents?

Lucy teh doc is inThere was a d-mom who was unable to be with her child who has diabetes.  The child was staying with her grandparents and her meter read ‘high’.  A second reading was taken, and ‘high’ came across again.  She, unable to get to where her child was, asked what should she do, or have the grandparents do?

As I read the responses, one thing jumped out at me and I wanted to open a dialogue to get your input, your feedback, and your advice.  I read 36 comments and in those 36 comments, only 12 stated for the grandparents to call the physician.  And in some cases they stated to try something first and if that did not work, to call the physician.

That was troublesome to me and I wanted to know how you felt?  For someone to come on-line and give about a four sentence synopsis of what her child was going through, it left me to wonder if it is right for the online community to think, without knowing anything about the details of this family, that it is okay to give medical advice?  Is it “universal’ to just start giving the patient water, adjusting an insulin dose, or to have them exercise, or to give advice because it works most of the time?

Is it okay to jump in and give advice based upon the fact that the mom was asking for it?

Is most of the time, every time?  I ask you; is that good enough?

But my day of calling the Doc is ‘yester-year thoughts’ and I wanted to know if it has become where the advice of ‘most of the time’ is a good start to be given by people who do not know your child at all, before the physician is called?  Has ‘my day’ opened to a different thought process because of all of the online communities?

This was not what do you think of a certain meter, or have you encountered ‘such-and-such’ in school and want to know advice; this was a child presently in a medical situation of a meter saying ‘high’ and asking for advice. Would you ask for advice?  Would you give advice other than call someone on the medical team?

It very well may be that it is an accepted practice with the speed of internet connections today but I was just curious if you, as parents, feel that this is okay?  Would/do you take advice from people you do not know, or know peripherally, when it comes to your child?  And I understand that in some cases, the medical team contacted, does not know the child all that well either.  But what is the right call, and that is why I am asking you?

It may be that the overwhelming answer is yes; but I ask the questions so all can learn and all of us can understand.   Your thoughts please?  Thanks.

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I Think We Should have a Hippo named “Hypo”…..Don’t You?

HippoDoes anyone else think of a Hippo when they see the word, or experience a, ”Hypo”.  I think there should be a Hippo named Hypo.  We feel the weight of the world on our shoulders when we are faced with a “Hypo” so the weight on our shoulders is about the same of carrying a ‘Hippo’ around isn’t it?

The stress we feel can be overwhelming at times when it comes to our kids with diabetes, of that we can all agree.  We, as parents, are not only deeply involved with our children and all that needs to be done in the day-to-day management of the disease, but we are also propped upon a perch observing what our children do every day interacting with others, or even being on their own.

When our child has a Hippo (uh….ahhh….er..I mean a Hypo) we tend to them immediately, don’t we.  We take them; off the field, in a corner backstage, or just to the sidelines and treat them.  We do what we have to do and get them back to where they need to be.  Off they go.

And it hits us.  No one else has to do this, our poor child should not have to even deal with this stupid disease?  Why can’t hey be allowed to just play?  Why can’t they be allowed to just do what they want without worrying about this disease?  We ask ourselves this each and every time, don’t we?

But here is the thing that we must realize, because of you…….that’s right—–YOU!!!!!–because of you and the fast acting way you have perfected dealing with your child’s low reaction during activities, in most cases, your child will barely give it a second thought.  When you treat them and they get back on the field as fast as they do, you are like the lightening speed of a ‘pit crew’ of a top-notch race car in a big race.

Your child pulls off to the side and you as a single team of experts doing all of the necessary ‘checks’ to get your child right back out there.  You have it down to a science.  You have perfected it over the years.  You know the focus is to get them ‘back out there’ and you are amazing at it.

But each and every time at night, when you are alone, it hits you and it upsets you.  If you told your child that you were upset, they would tell you to forget about it,  They would give you the “bye” you seek.  They have already moved on from everything dealing with the most recent hypo-reaction to the day they were diagnosed.

“I got it, let’s move on.  I am back in this game of life.” 

They can do that and they would tell you to the same.  Our kids are amazing and they move on each time.  Us? It hits us and we feel as if we are being sat upon by a hippo…..I think we should choose to try to do what our kids would do and give ourselves a “bye”.  Or maybe it is the fact that we take on the weight of everything so they don’t have to, and that is most important to us……that would make sense wouldn’t it?

We are parents and their happiness and their striving for goals THEY WANT…….for now…….that serves as our ‘bye’.   And next time you feel down about it…….you making them succeed is as powerful as it gets and carries more weight in their success………………..than even a hippo.  Remember that…..always.

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A Reminder about Some Pretty Good “Insurance”.

GeckoRecently I was on business in the state of Florida.  As I left the parking lot, I spent 10 minutes trying to get this (what I thought was) little green gecko off the roof of my car.  There I am talking to the little cutie by telling him to get off or he will be blown into oblivion.

Well he would have none of it.  So I had to be on my way.

As I travelled, I came to my destination and there he was, clinging to the side of the car after a 10 mile trip where at times I was at speeds of 55 miles per hour.  I posted a picture on my FB pages and stated that it was clearly a marketing attempt by a company to get me to switch my car’s insurance company (waste of time I already am a client).

Many people, of course, immediately wrote to tell me that my little friend was not a Gecko but rather a Green Anole.  Okay.  Does a certain insurance company know that?  What I found fascinating about this little guy is the way he held on for the amount of time I was on the road.  It gave me two thoughts.

The first is do we hang on sometimes for dear life just so we are not blown off the vehicle and squished to no end.  Or are we hanging on because it is a really cool ride and we will stay with it as long as we can.  I would like to think that I am holding on because it is an incredible ride.

On my flight home last night, I sat next to a woman who had incredible stories to tell me about her family and her son in California.  I love listening to people and her life was so fascinating from the offices in Manhattan for most of her life, to her movie-writer son who with his wife, just made her a grandmother.  All of it, just fascinated me.

As we talked I shared some things about some of the things that have transpired in our lives and she looked at me and stated that my life sounded so incredibly fascinating.  Really?  As we look back at our lives do we see that we walked through any door that opened, and any one that closed did not stop us from moving forward?  Are we ‘clinging to life’…..or like my new little-gecko (Anole)-friend……just enjoying the ride.

Our lives ARE fascinating and it is important to step back every now and again and realize just how much we have experienced which has increased our knowledge in so many areas.  Even in the ‘ugly’ where we were holding on for ‘dear-life’ we made it through and became stronger.  But at the end of the day, we must enjoy the ride, like my little Gecko (Anole) friend.

How do I know he made that choice….well because at the next stop he was still there as night began.  I looked at him and said, well little fella you surely taught me a lesson today…….how do I know you weren’t just clinging on for dear life?

As the words finished….he walked up the car and posed for me.
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And proceeded to jump off the car and disappear into near-by grass.

Answer received.  Almost as if to say, “Thanks for the ride pal”.

Moral of the story……..the choice to cling or enjoy can be very close in resemblance some times……choose to enjoy.  That is a choice we can each make.   Take time to look and see it………in the end it will make you stronger.  It will teach each of us how we face each tomorrow…….and THAT’s…….. pretty darn good insurance.

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Today is Declared……..A Day of Fluff. Enjoy!

FluffI have decided to declare today…….a day of fluff; you in?

I’m unsure who it is that has the power to declare a day in any such manner but if it is something that everyone wants, why not?  So today is a day of fluff.  You’re welcome.

We are all bogged down with so much.   We have jobs, family, and so many other things that distract us, needs our attention, needs our time, and most of all needs our energy.  Too much ‘stuff’.    Don’t you wish you could have a day that is just for you and really is a day where nothing else matters.

Poof.

Fluff.

Fluff is so cool.  Fluff is the opposite of stuff.  We have so much ‘stuff’ going on that we run morning, noon, and night.  Stuff going on, stuff happening, ….too much ‘stuff’.

Fluff is nothing. Almost like a cloud.  It feels soft, it wraps around you and holds you.  It is gentle.  It is no worries, no pain, no running around, no ‘have-to-do’ anything today because today is a day of fluff.

Take it, enjoy it, because tomorrow you have to get back to your stuff; but today is a declared day…………………..of fluff.

Enjoy.

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Take Life with No Regrets…..One Shot at Being Happy…What’s Your Choice?

Live no regretsPeople know nothing about this disease……
We need to do a better job educating the public…….
People have no idea what we, as a family, go through on a daily basis….

Diabetes?   Right.

Answer, No.  I found these comments on other sites dealing with heath issues other than diabetes.  They are out there you know.

I have always felt that no one disease has it better or worse.  We just…….have it and have to deal with it.  Someone once stated that they would rather have diabetes than a disease that can take your life……..my answer was that I know a few parents who would take strong issue with that statement>

No one should live in a defeatist attitude living with diabetes but it is important to understand, or if not understand than realize, that every disease state has issues much like ours in the diabetes community.  We feel misunderstood, an uneducated public, the need for better treatment, and the ultimate desire for a cure.

These feelings, I have found, are fairly universal.

We can spend the time defending why diabetes is better or worse than something else; but really—–what does that accomplish?   If you want to help others, for whatever the reason—I say go for it.  There probably is not a family on this living earth that does not  ‘have something’ that they are dealing with even those who you might think otherwise.

One of the reasons my heart broke over Robin Williams’ actions is that it is very easy to think that the man had it all.  But if you have it all and you’re drowning in depression……you don’t have it all, do you?

I would like to get to the point that even with diabetes in our household, we have it all.  It makes no sense to dwell on all of the pitfalls that come with diabetes…..or any other obstacle for that matter.  When all is said and done, we will have only…….well…..what we have.  I say to make the decision to move forward because the alternative just is not a viable option.

Live life for today.  Live today for all it has.  Live.  And live everything with no regrets……because you can’t change the past anyway—–move forward.

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Why is there NO Ice Bucket Challenge for Diabetes?

Dorothy OzUnless you have been on another planet for the last month, you have seen the many, many ice bucket challenges that people around the world are doing to raise funds for ALS.  Bravo, them; I say.  Even with a bit of envy as anyone involved in raising funds can appreciate when something of that magnitude works.

This incredible event has many thinking, should the charity I belong to, do the same?

I’m a  creature of history; to learn from the successes and not to repeat things that have not worked so well.  I study things to see what is the real reason things happen.  Over the years almost every charity does a walkathon and I am not so sure that anyone did so with apologies to the March of Dimes, which was the first of the large-scale walks.  What charities did, though—and here is the lesson; they made the event ‘theirs’.

The JDF (now JDRF) Walk for the Cure (which was the name until changed to Walk to Cure Diabetes) took the same concept of the walk and under the genius of a man named Steve Leonard created an event that literally put JDRF on the map as nothing before.  It was just a walkathon, but Steve added the idea of family teams to make the event a powerhouse.  The lesson: if you do a fund-raiser that is out there already—-make it your own.

The ribbon.  The pink ribbon for Breast Cancer…..they were first, right?  Not so fast.  The people involved in the AIDS movement just might beg to differ with you as their red ribbon may very well have been the first. AIDS Ribbon What the breast cancer folks did, is take that concept to a much larger audience, women; and state something that resonated with them to take it to a larger audience. The lesson: take something that will resonate with those you are involved.  The ribbon is not what was new……making it ‘pink’ and standing behind it in large numbers; perfect.

The rubber bracelet.  “We have to get a bracelet and make it our color and get to everyone we know”.  First?  Nope.  That honor belongs to the now disgraced Lance Armstrong.  Live Strong’s bright yellow bracelet was the first and others copied it; and could it be that the yellow bracelet was only someone else’s MIA metal bracelets from years ago?  Where, for a donation, you received a metal bracelet of a Prisoner of War (POW) or Missing in Action (MIA) from the Viet Nam era and wore it until their return, or being found?  The more an idea changes, the more they are the same.

So you see, not so new.

Now the ice bucket phenomena?  And it is, just that.  Truth is there have been challenges for many things that go far back but this one was the right event at the right time.  It started with a bunch of guys who wanted to do something for their buddy, a baseball player from BC in New England who was stricken with ALS.  From there the rest is history.

Why/how this happened? Well many will tell you many reasons and I’m sure experts have already begun to try to analyze it so they ‘can teach’ others about it.  It’s my belief that it comes down to utilizing the social media in its finest form and utilizing large numbers of people to spread the word.  Because this young man had many friends—it was not 2 became 4 became 8 became 16; more like 50 became 100 became 200 became 400 and away they went.

Lately, many people have asked why is there nothing like this out there for diabetes.  A bucket of water? NO.  But look around you.  To utilize a wonderful quote by Dorothy in the Wizard of OZ; I know that if I ever go looking for my heart’s desire, I’ll never go any further than my own back yard. For if it isn’t there, I never really lost it.

Amen sister.  Before everyone starts to look for THAT NEW ice bucket challenge, I say you do not even have to look further than your own backyard.  What you do have to do—-is get behind it.

Moira McCarthy StanfordMy good friend, diabetes advocate powerhouse, Moira McCarthy went to her many friends online (and I am sure offline also) and raised a good deal of money for the JDRF Ride held recently.  And she was by no means alone and they do the same thing and it raises millions of dollars, nothing to sneeze at by any means.  The power of social media helped that recent event and many other events that JDRF and the ADA organize with large numbers of people.  Those are events you can both participate and get behind.  If someone is doing something and sends you a link; pass it along with a personal note from you.

And if it is something ‘new’ you are looking for, that no one else is doing that is just an idea that an individual does on their own, well Thirteen-year-old Jonathan Berman launched an incredible initiative at the Children with Diabetes Conference this year in early July.  His idea, give a dollar, JUST ONE DOLLAR, to help find a cure for diabetes.  Jonathan’s Power of One has raised over $3,000 thus far to benefit the Diabetes Research Institute.  Stand behind that; share that idea.

And here is one that happens every year that I bet you did not know existed.  Instead of buying a dozen roses, you buy 11 and the price of the twelfth one is donated to the International Diabetes Federation’s Life for a Child to help children who cannot even afford insulin.  Share that idea around Valentine’s day; stand behind that idea.

And there surely are more.

What all of these ideas need……is just a large number of people to stand behind them.  And that IS the us, the diabetes community.

So before one thinks that there is nothing out there and ‘why doesn’t the diabetes’ community get behind something—-I say, THEY ARE OUT THERE.  Support them.  Some have been here already, some are the idea of a child, some are just as unique as an ice bucket.

The lesson here is that if this community, the diabetes community, chooses to stand behind something and give it the push needed—-THAT IDEA WILL BECOME THE NEXT ICE BUCKET CHALLENGE.

I say you do not even have to look beyond your (our) own backyard.  Dumping a bucket of water on someone is surely not new.  What was new is that a group of people got behind that bucket of water and gave it the push needed.

Give something the push needed.

That is my challenge to you…..and you do not even have to get wet doing it.

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A Sister’s Passion for Life; Drives me to my Knees.

JoAnneIn honor of my Dad’s birthday today, I’m choosing to write about someone who was extremely close to my dad and who has had a monumental impact on my life.  I could do this on her birthday but if you knew how close this woman was to my dad, you would understand.  She is, by far, one of the strongest women I have ever known.

She is my oldest sister, JoAnne.  There are six kids in our family and I’m the youngest and JoAnne is the oldest with only 7 1/2 years (no twins) separating us (you can start if you wish, but over the years we have all heard every joke there is about this :) ).

Years ago JoAnne was stricken with MS.  At the end of it all, she has been left unable to really move very much from her neck down.  I’m not going to spend a lot of time on this because she would not be happy with me and being the older sister, I really do not want the phone call chastising me.  And it is THAT spirit that has been such an inspiring factor in my life.

JoAnne is a lot like my dad.  To say she is strong-willed would be an understatement, and in all of the years she has been in this state, not once–never–ever, have I heard her complain about the position she is in.  She has a fabulous sense of humor and an incredible ear to listen and she is the mother of six children, eleven grandchildren, and one cat (who jumps up on her shoulder EVERY morning to say hello to her and ‘nuzzle’ her face).

She has the people who care for her and people are always coming and going in her apartment.  Yes, she lives in an apartment because THAT is how she wants it.  There has been a ton of hardship in her life and as a single mom, she certainly has had her share of ‘life’ to deal with, certainly more than most.  And she has not complained about THAT either.

She has an uncanny memory for movies, movie roles, and movie lines (our favorite is Alastair Sim in a Christmas Carol—to us, it’s the only version worth watching). She LOVES baseball and in particular, CC Sabathia of the NY Yankees.  She has an incredible faith and she has a wonderful laugh.  Her mind has not diminished one iota and one would be foolish to think you would ever get the upper hand in any discussion unless you knew all of the facts, because she will nail you on it every time.

If something happens in our lives, and we feel she has enough on her plate and she should not be bothered, the phone will undoubtedly ring asking, not only, what is going on; but why was she not called?

You see, to JoAnne (which she was named and spelled the way it is because my dad was Joe, and my mom was Anne) lives life about everyone else.  She will send a note, make a call, and care about those around her always and in all ways before she will ever think of her own needs.

That is my sister. When we moved into our first house, TJ was just born and I was painting the entire inside of the house before we could move in, it was a huge undertaking to do by myself.  I would have never finished on time if that doorbell did not ring and there she was in paint clothes ready to work.  She stayed until we finished.

Her life was full of her kids and dance schools, baseball games, and parties at her house.  Even now, we have our sibling Christmas party at her house each year, because she would not have it any other way.

So as we go through our lives, fretting over the things we fret over, when I think I have it tough I think of JoAnne.  Do I think of all of the hardship she has?  Not really, I think of the spirit she has, the determination she has, the drive she has, and the love she has to move forward every day and how she uses that to blind the world around her just how tough she has it.  That is enough to humble one to their knees.

She is my dad’s legacy in so many ways………which today, on his birthday, is a great reminder for all of us.  Happy Birthday Dad, and I love you SC (a nickname); dad would be beyond proud in the way your very life is such an example of the phrase:
‘Love One Another’.

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Yes an Old Dog Can, and so Should We…..Even as a Reminder.

Old dogNo matter how long you have had diabetes in your life, learning is an ongoing practice.  Today, a few things to think about:

Checking your child’s blood glucose in the middle of the night is surely your call; but I can tell you that 4-5-6 checks throughout a normal night may be something you might want to look into.  Find a balance.

If you are running to pick your child up at school each time their number runs high, you may want to speak to someone to find out when removal from school is necessary.  We picked up our children, or kept them home, just a handful of times in the 16 years of schooling between the two of them with T1.  That is not to say their numbers were always perfect, quite the opposite, but to spend a little time in the health office and returned to class when appropriate always seemed the best options for us.  I don’t know what’s right or wrong but millions of people have had this disease over the years and surely that balance needs to be found.

NO…….NO……NO….it’s NOT wrong that some have chosen to home-school their child.  Whether diabetes or not; it is no one’s business telling a family what they should or should not do in this matter.  I cannot tell you how many I know who have home-schooled their children and the results in every case I know (at least) is most impressive…….looking back, I’m not so sure I would not have given that more thought years ago.

You own no one an explanation on giving your child a cell phone (or not).  One piece of advice; staying connected is a good thing but if your child feels it’s just another way to be hounded, it will end up turned off and a battle ground will be created between you both.  Again, find the balance, set the parameters from the get-go.  Let them know that it is a wonderful device which they can use but you need them to do ‘X, Y, & Z’ for them to continue with that privilege.  Once the boundaries are set, it becomes clear what is expected.  The boundaries can change also.  Listen to your child and they will listen to you (okay, not always, they’re kids I get it).

I have said this one a million times.  A medical ID bracelet or necklace is a non-negotiable.  It’s to be worn always.  My daughter was an EMT on an ambulance and she has had T1 since being diagnosed at the age of 2 in 1992—-the wonderful first responders, as a general rule, do not look on sneaker laces, or pins, or anywhere else one thinks the alert is okay to wear it.  Around the wrist or around the neck.  Period.

I know it might be a first reaction to feel/say, “…..this is MY child and I know what is right and will do it our way……”

Point taken.

That being understood, also remember that there are very few things that will happen now that diabetes is the new normal that will be completely unique to just you.  It may seem like it is just you and your child against the world but I can tell you 22+ years strong, and as active as we have chosen to be, that I have seen very little that someone else had not also gone through.  I rely on the community we are now in.  Even just recently, we were in a situation that was fairly unique to us and I reached out to a few people who I knew faced similar circumstances.

Check with your medical team (Doc, CDE, RD, etc.).  Ask others.  Read all you can.   Educate yourself.  Find the balance.  For the newly diagnosed, and those at it over twenty years—–a few simple things to hear and/or be reminded is not such a bad thing.

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“Your Child with T1 MUST Be on a Pump”………

 

Highway…………hmmmmmmmmm I don’t think so.

“No, that cannot be correct.  You have to do XYZ with your child who has T1 diabetes.  My doctor told me, the world’s greatest endo in ABC City told me, and the Pope told me……it cannot be done any other way.  So YOU must do it this way too or your kid will be in BIG TROUBLE.”

Hmmmmmmmm…..what would my world be like if I did everything I was told by ‘the experts’ that I should not do?  What would your world look like?

Well, acting was definitely ‘out’—I cannot begin to tell you how many people ‘in the know’ told me THAT was a bad choice because THEY KNEW.  They were wrong.

Because I had a speech impediment when a child, I was never going to do any public speaking and many did not want me ‘on their team’ because it took too long to understand me.  They were wrong.

I should be satisfied with the way diabetes treatment was, because ‘the pump’ would never work and we should never think that it would ever be used in everyday use…….and even if it did, not for kids or the newly diagnosed.  They were wrong.

Amazing the things people think ‘they have the right’ to impose on others.  I’m always open for advice, something new can always be learned; but I do not have to do it your way…….I’m going to do my homework educating myself and read-read-read-investigate-investigate-investigate, speak to thousands of people, and move forward with MY choice.

In addition to not taking ‘others’ word as gospel, I have also learned that just because it is not true today, it does not mean it will not be true tomorrow.  One of anything cannot be in use in 2009, be perfected, and be the standard in 2015.

Keep your mind open and most of all, your eyes open.  We, are people; we make mistakes.  If one is very persistent on something you do…..being just as persistent back at them will lead to probably nothing more than frustration.  Friction and friction—-will only get you heat; as I have always said.  Listen, thank people for their input, and make the call.

If you see two people ‘going at it’ be careful about getting involved because chances are you will do little to change anyone’s mind anyway.   I have better things to do than to get into an argument about anything.  As I get older, being ‘right’ is only important in my choices.

Read-educate-act.  Something to think about.

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“Stranded at the Drive-In”——Person with T1 Told No Food Allowed In.

Drive n DelseaJohn Travolta’s character in Grease sang that song when he was left high and dry at the drive-in movie theatre by Sandy, his true love.  It looks like Danny Zuko is not the only one having problems at the local neighborhood drive-in movies.

Dr. John Deleonardis is a pediatrician who also owns a movie theatre in New Jersey.  A drive-in movie theatre to be exact. Recently Dr. Deleonardis made news because he denied a young man the right to bring food into the drive-in, even though the young man has type 1 diabetes.

When the confrontation occurred and Dr. Deleonardis was asked about the entire situation he responded, “My time shouldn’t be occupied at the box office trying to explain to people.  We have a website.  It tells you about this.  If you don’t want to go to that, don’t come.”

Hmmmmmmm………………………Is this attitude the same as telling someone to go elsewhere if no handicapped ramp is available for a wheel chair?

Clearly the Doctor owns a business and it’s his call to run his business except in cases when he is violating someone else’s rights.  In a case involving SFX Entertainment denying entrance to venue holding a concert, it was found that:
“Should a guest arrive at a venue with food that is brought for diabetic purposes, an event staffer or supervisor, upon confirming that the food is in fact being brought for diabetic purposes, shall permit the guest to bring that food into the venue as an exception to the venue’s general policy prohibiting guests from bringing their own food into the venue. Should the food require refrigeration, the event staffer should offer to allow the guest to store the food in the refrigerator in the First Aid Room.”  (http://www.ada.gov/sfxinc.htm)

Somewhere in the story the ‘good-doctor/owner’ also stated that diabetes-friendly food (would have loved to know what THAT was?) was available at the concession stand for sale.  It’s here where I believe he will find his case lost; as it needs to be readily available for emergency purposes as the findings in the SFX Entertainment case.

The family of course feels humiliated and many have stated how they do not understand how it got to this point.  Statements like:
“Why did they not just have his diabetes bag under the seat”.
“Why did they allow a check of his back-pack.”
“The snacks could have easily been hidden.”

All of these statements are true in the fact that they could have been done and done easily, that stated; it’s not the point.  Seems to me the Doctor may have his hands tied with legalities if this family wants, and chooses, to bring an action against him.  The courts would have to decide the merits of all parties.

My guess is also that postings, more than just the drive-in movie website, will be in order stating exactly what the policy is in agreement with the laws of the American Disabilities Act.  The doctor may also have a little PR problem on his hands in the fact that………well…….he is a pediatrician——and his actions may just seem a tad insensitive, but I will leave that to public opinion.

Now we can get in a rage about this story and we surely have seen it before; but if you want to do something, find out the laws exactly as needed and advocate for change.  Anger and hostile comments are all over the internet about this incident and you can find them……..join them…..and surely utilize your amendment rights.  But if you are THAT angry about it, take up the cause and run with it.

Years and years ago, the wonderful and mega-talented Crystal Jackson was just not so happy with the way things were done in her child’s school.  Now she, and her team at the American Diabetes Association, have changed history with what is expected in schools.  Crystal could have spent a lot of time yelling and screaming.  Now she negotiates as much as she can and when needed, she lets the law do her yelling.

If the movie theater story ‘pisses you off’—-get it off your chest.  But get ready to get to work on it, or the yelling is a moot point except to blow off steam.  One can turn a deaf ear to noise, but when a judge lowers that gavel, it’s heard by the world.

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